life inevitably

Why do I do this to myself every damn year? I wait till the last minute, because life inevitably gets in the way, and then I am stuck at the godforsaken mall on the Sunday before Christmas.

I'm a relatively sane person. Most of the time. BUT... the holiday season gives me an anxious feeling in my gut starting about, oh..say, November 1st. They start pushing it down our throats at about 12:01 am and it doesn't end till the after-Christmas sales the second week of January. Black Friday should just be renamed 'the day we do not speak of' as far as I am concerned.

Thus this post, if you'll forgive me, is a peek into the horror I truly feel at dealing with the unenviable task of heading out to the mall. This, my friends, is real life horror - at its most reprehensible.

Chinese Wen Zhou Ren declares the crowd that China is rich with most , likes to hang the words by the side of the mouth most be:"Rather sleep floor, also want to be a boss" or"rather do business to earn 1000 dollars just for a month, don't wish to do a part-time job to earn 3000 dollars in January".These principles believes to is what their elders warn them in the life and change and influence imperceptibly in become working the principle of feeling in their heart.
These principles are some principles, this principle has with other thinking principles of numerous places very differential of, even if have a similar choice now, I estimate a lot of friends exactly with their choose contrary.But this principle is very advanced, is exactly principle like this to make Wen Zhou Ren different, become China's being rich with most of crowd.
"The way of thinking decides exit"!!!

This sentence many people once hears, but turns an eye namely forget, prefer to to do a part-time job for other people, university ages synthesizes plain high quality a lot of classmates, the Yao takes 12,000 wageses for a month, Yao just graduate student graduation, burnedly sought a work.

If you recognize quasi- you wants to start a business to do business and insists doing down to pass examination than those Master, the Doctor's persons all have ambition.Turn head to say again for 80 ages state person and person in Sichuan.

Wen Zhou's farmer and farmers in Sichuan in 80's all belong to the crowd that started making a living away from home at the earliest stage, Wen Zhou's farmer made a living away from home the way of China is to fix an umbrella, fountain-pen and iron pot, or pour to sell some sundry expenses general merchandise, in fine everywhere of wander about.The way that farmer in Sichuan makes a living away from home is direct to do a part-time job in Guangdong.All of the persons who presume to make a living away from home in 80's are the persons who uses courage, because the in those days contains not flourishing information, the transportation is inconvenient, people outward the world of noodles embrace to deeply fear.Person and Wen Zhou Rens in Sichuan are all courageous and energy, but walked to ascend because of the dissimilarity of way of thinking dissimilarity of build up fortune road.

Passed by for 29 years, Wen Zhou's farmer had already become China is rich with most of crowd, they control China to go into business technical ability most advancedly, their wealths even can make their posterities come out an entrance to a country and go to Europe to go into business;But farmer in Sichuan generation part-time job have already withdrawn history satge, they mostly continue in old house in Sichuan needy life, but their younger generations follow the footprint of father generation and continue to like a swarm of bees hustle Guangzhou accepts the bosses of ruthlessness exploit, become a the poorest type of society of person.
What does this explain?Because the choice of father generation is different and not only influence an oneself, but also influence own posterity!The hardship of Wen Zhou's farmer starts a business to let themselves and the posterity thoroughly got away from poor, but the hard part-time job of farmer in Sichuan change come of is that the descendant is sad endless endless of woe and poor.

In person in Zhejiang an economist, very fantastic, he tallied up person in Zhejiang's work philosophy:"Rather do to start a business wolf, don't do a part-time job dog", certainly this words say very extremely, a lot of none of friendses of part-time jobs take pleasure in listenning to, but we cautiously want and also really have a little truth.

Wolf for looking for a freedom, prefer to independent personality, freely thought, rush on the big steppe every day, without restraint hunt to kill cow sheep, enjoy the whole delicacy that the great universe provides possibly, eat satisfied after lie on the lawn, don't think anything and enjoy the air of sunlight and freedom, they are dominating of steppeses, they have plenty of dignity.However when strict cold come, they have to learn the chill of resisting blizzard, the academic association is in pain and sufferings that below look for a find, often stay stomach of very thick snow heap, worry at any time that oneself freezes hungry but die.The life of wolf it may be said the half is a sea water, the half is a flames.

The life of dog exactly the opposite, the dogs edible host to leave at ordinary times of cripple the thick soup cold Zhi, is threatenned by the host everywhere the favour lives and there is no freedom, have no dignity, only beg like a dog, the life of dog has the assuring, although always could not eat what delicious, don't worry to endure hunger to be subjected to a jelly as well while arriving in winter, there is the host's fart protecting, the dogs thanksgiving wears virtuous, swear to still keep being loyal to for host next lifetime, even if the host without restraint beat and scold the dogs, the dogs don't dare to utter a word as well, because obey and tame is the sign of the dogs.It is the label of the dogs to save the situation by making concessions, for the sake of the stable bowl, has a ration for fixing for the sake of oneself's old age, everythings all recognized!
If carry on people in the real life a comparison, estimate that we are mostly all life that lives a dog, stable comfort and ease, but eat forever not satisfied, want to leave the kennel of host's house,lack to cut off all means of retreat of courage!

I feel the occupation of realistic medium young man choose mostly is do a part-time job dog, not do the wolf of starting a business.Probably a lot of friends will say, just the student of door in the school, where had capital and experience to start a business?The best choice is to do a part-time job for several years to the company, the storage orders experience and funds, then has the words of opportunity after several years oneself start a business again.

In fact such of the viewpoint proof is very false, an university student's unit works after several years, not only could not earn to start a business money needed, is also the experience and technical ability that can not learn to start a business.The part-time job career learns of the thing have no the useful towards starting a business basically being, because both of the angle is different and consider a way different, experience for getting realizes also different, can say so, do a part-time job after several years you are unique acquire an exaltation of is the technique technical ability of part-time job, but start a business don't need most of is a technique technical ability.
The worst BE, do a part-time job after several years, the young man widespreadly will lose the intense emotion for starting a business and lose the courage that the just born cow Du isn't afraid of a tiger and more and more wallow in unit in hard from pull out, mind afterwards starting a business can stay in the heart bottom forever and become a permanent regret.Waited until age to 40 is much dismissed by the boss of time, just regret that why 20 year agos don't come out their oneself starts a business!

The request that so does to start a business wolf actually isn't Gao high?
As long as you there is the principle to do to start a business wolf, which afraid in pocket only have 100 dollars, as usual can start a business succeed!

Somebody else how many moneys does Wen Zhou Ren of the one generation early come out to do business pocket to have?Not is depend to change an egg to change iron pot to earn the first money.Your pocket inside only has 100 dollars, can put a stall by the side of the street at least and sell some socks gloves in winter what of, sell some Bo Luo in summer what of, the funds can make a type for roasting after being a little bit more ample, anyway, money is again little, can also walk up start a business of road, does the key see you wanting to do the wolf of starting a business?

Wolf for looking for a freedom, prefer to independent personality, freely thought, rush on the big steppe every day, without restraint hunt to kill cow sheep, enjoy the whole delicacy that the great universe provides possibly, eat satisfied after lie on the lawn, don't think anything and enjoy the air of sunlight and freedom, they are dominating of steppeses, they have plenty of dignity.However when strict cold come, they have to learn the chill of resisting blizzard, the academic association is in pain and sufferings that below look for a find, often stay stomach of very thick snow heap, worry at any time that oneself freezes hungry but die.The life of wolf it may be said the half is a sea water, the half is a flames.Probably this is the wolf way
Part-time job life with start a business the life must be different.

Time grew, the personality of part-time job with start a business the personality of will have more and more big difference.

We examine one's conscience and do a part-time job time grows of friend often feel more suffer from suffer from losing, frightened outside unfamiliar world, frightened unemployed danger, the mind becomes more and more sensitive and flimsiness.Mindset not only gradually exhausted and lazy, the whole individual also had no drive and spirit, had to comfort oneself contented long joy, cool fame and wealth.But the life becomes more and more mediocre, family of the economic burden is more and more heavy, the house and kid educates gradually an economic rope of becoming his/her own neck, Lei of more and more tight, deeply however spirit come, have to adjust own fixed position that mindset let oneself adapt to small reptile in the city gradually, oneself was originally a common man, common man why the need for from Rao it, it is the somebody else's affair to become rich, we had no that life.

The first affair that fears most nothing is better than in hear the news that the companies haven't good efficiency, reduce staff, most important affair and leadership make a good relation and insist studying compliment to flatter fart and adopt the customs of the natives.Thought numbness, have to with greatly flow, after all bowl at leadership or boss of center of palm in, want to make you fuck off, have to fuck off.

Fear most the second affair is the gradual growth that sees oneself's age, but own work technical ability didn't acquire any exaltation, although lean against the resume old wages also more and more, but looking at those lately- come in young university students, living Long Huo Hu's stem to live, want ～only so the wages at 1:00, the boss' knock rings out in the ear and sees the little stem that somebody else's young man eats much, you these old revolutions are more old more don't go.No wonder that, the result of part-time job career is more old more depreciate, particularly arrived 40-50, absolutely is the most pathetic stage in business, every moment get close to an abyss, like trip land mine, frequently be unemployeed unemployed.
Someone says is the high peak period that the blue-collar worker is unemployeeds for the past 10 years, will be a white to get the high peak period that the worker is unemployeed for the coming 10-20 yearses, you did 1 ever study at that an university was an elite by himself/herself?The society progresses unremittingly, you of knowledge structure, body character, the occupation principle early not as just- graduated as family university borns.The boss is realistic and affirm initiative to cut those while meeting a crisis 40-50 of the white get a worker.

So say that you have a work of stability now, you feel safe and in fact wait with at you nearby by time bomb, wait until after more than 10 years, it will explode, you that time unemployed pain and sufferings and price want perhaps compare now cruel 10000%.